Do not forget try accepting it

You go far from your place, nostalgic memories and remembrance.You are broken and you feel shifting to a new place will start a new journey of life.But never forget that if you do not clean the vessel from inside then  a new dish can never have its original taste.You keep on adding flavors to the new dish but the essence of the old  screwed up dish still remains there.In the same way life goes.Do not pretend to forget because you too know it from your heart that you can never forget things completely, in fact no one can .If you start living with the fact that something bad happened and see how quickly you get used to of that fact.
                                                     People say "move on dude!"because they were never at your side.So just listen to them and do what you feel is gonna make you  move on in your life.Their is nothing wrong in getting boozed up,but the reason behind that should be nothing.You should never drink to lift your mood up.Apparently you land up in a soup of desolation.Common find a permanent solution!Drinking is never the answer to your questions.Its just the better way to forget all the questions you wanted an answer for.Its better to cry over it as much as you can and then rise up like a strong person who knows what happened and what can happen.
Not just walking blindfolded so that you can never see the past.The day you will  uncover your eyes you will find your past standing just in front and ready to defeat you.
                                                    Changing your place ,work station,group of friends and even your mind set will never make you forget.It will just hide things to reveal you the truth in a bigger picture.So,moving on never meant that you can forget things forever,it always meant staying with memories and accepting them as a part of your life so that you can get used to of the adversity.That day you will never be scared of looking back because you will be hugging your past and walking with it like two old buddies.

DONT LOOK AT US

Sitting in a group of 20 guys and commenting at girl passing by.She is alone and terrified and finds very difficult to react or give it back to them.She keeps on thinking  the possible reason for this behavior of Boys towards girls.She shares it with her parents to know the reason behind this.Instead of looking into the matter parents tell her not to travel alone.They restrict her freedom

This is the stage through which almost all of the girls go through.

We keep questioning this behavior and we end up being raped or grounded by our parents.In this scorching heat we cover our body because we have a fear of hungry eyes staring at us.Is this the humanity??

They worship god and ask for all sorts of trivial wishes they have.A moment later if they see a girl they start looking at her from top to bottom and are determined to make her look down to the ground.Is that what makes them a Man?

The fun fact is here that they still expect God to grant their wishes.After insulting and disparaging the god's most nurturing creation they claim themselves to be the most well founded creations of the god.

We cant walk freely on streets because we are scared of gawking faces and staring eyes.We are humans just like these men.I address every male member here who has stared at a girl in a manner which is not permissible by her.I am not only talking about the road side guys.I am questioning those literate and claiming to be from very sound family background men too."Why do you stare at a girl who comes in short clothes to your school ,college or work-place?"She has right to wear anything she wants the way you men do.

Just sit back and think what if you go out in a vest and burmuda shorts and the people in street keep looking at you and start giggling in a group.You guys will be agitated and may be you end up thrashing people who will be staring.

We undergo through this situation daily in our life.

That 's all I can explain.Please stop treating us like aliens.We are just like you.You will know it the day you have daughters.