Sunday, May 19, 2013

Join hands instead of holding hands helplessly

Girls wake up!!We are in 21st century.Gone are the days when guys are not supposed to ask our age.When we claim to be equal in every aspect then on what grounds are we expecting a special treatment at every part of our daily life.If a guy is generous enough to offer us his seat in a bus,acknowledge his generosity rather than considering it your moral right.
"Gender differentiation was commenced by our ancestors
 but now we are continuing it my lovely sisters."
If we boast about being equal in every aspect to males then lets not consider ourselves as some fragile flower.Lets be the stem so that we can equally support in the development of this environment which considers us weak.If we take an example of a very normal love relationship,in that too, girl always wants to feel special.She wants a guy to make her feel special on a date which he has to sponsor without a doubt.Why not the other way round?We can take an initiative to make a guy feel special.Lets expand our horizons of mind instead of expanding our image as dainty creation of god.
This is for all the girls who wanna marry a rich guy-"The success you wanna marry is not earned by you and anything which you don't earn can either be begged or borrowed."So its better to fulfill our desires on our own.
Why is a guy always expected to pay wherever we go.Why don't we girls realize that he too has got his own expenses the way we have.Rather than being a liability lets be an asset to men.
It was all about the silly expectations we carry from guys.Now lets talk about the illogical myths we have.
Why cant a female visit an holy place while she is suffering from her menstrual cycle.Our mother is the one who tells us about the menstrual cycle we girls get.She never thinks that we are impure or unfit to sleep beside her or hug her.Them how can we imagine god who is the parent of the whole world will discard us.God has created us .He is with us like our soul, we are never impure for him.
Can i see a surprise in the eyes of readers?Cant I mention Menstrual cycle publicly.Lets get practical and comprehend the truth that every student be it a guy or a girl learns about it in a proper way.Its taught to us in biology.Its as normal as giving birth to a baby.We can openly discuss about it and ask for help from our male friends or father while emergencies.
Lets open our eyes and look around that we all are equal.So, join hands together and contribute to the equality we always wanted between the two genders.