Nature has
its own philosophy. It makes us understand how slowly and gradually things work
here. For instance, a piece of stone takes thousand years to transform into soil.
A bud takes its own sweet time to blossom into a beautiful flower.
So, even
nature teaches us to be patient and slow with every relation of our life. Imagine
we try to open the petals of the bud and blossom it into a flower. The results will be
ugly and incomplete and it will lose its beauty completely. Similarly we get
attached to a person and start getting scared to lose that person .So we start trying
to make that relation a legal contract. But why are we so unsecured? We can
always enjoy the present without any fear of losing the charm. Getting married in
a hurry would never create an unbreakable wow between the couple. It just turns
into a legal bonding.
Marriage is
exactly like a flower which blossoms with time and nature’s fresh air and
water. So hurrying up will just ruin its natural way of growing beautiful and strong.
“Love is
never a relationship love is relating”-Osho
Let’s know
each other and keep our relation as fresh as it was in starting stages. Slowly
and gradually the colors of love and trust will start melting and mixing to
create the true and perfect picture of an ideal relation.
We are in hurry because to
relate is insecure and relationship is security. But what is the meaning of
security alone which never makes you feel protected and loved. We become so
afraid that we want to make it certain and predictable.
Relation is just a noun
and relating is verb. So, let’s reduce each noun to verb.
