Slow is beautiful

Nature has its own philosophy. It makes us understand how slowly and gradually things work here. For instance, a piece of stone takes thousand years to transform into soil. A bud takes its own sweet time to blossom into a beautiful flower.

So, even nature teaches us to be patient and slow with every relation of our life. Imagine we try to open the petals of the bud and  blossom it into a flower. The results will be ugly and incomplete and it will lose its beauty completely. Similarly we get attached to a person and start getting  scared to lose that person .So we start trying to make that relation a legal contract. But why are we so unsecured? We can always enjoy the present without any fear of losing the charm. Getting married in a hurry would never create an unbreakable wow between the couple. It just turns into a legal bonding.

Marriage is exactly like a flower which blossoms with time and nature’s fresh air and water. So hurrying up will just ruin its natural way of growing beautiful and strong.

“Love is never a relationship love is relating”-Osho

Let’s know each other and keep our relation as fresh as it was in starting stages. Slowly and gradually the colors of love and trust will start melting and mixing to create the true and perfect picture of  an ideal relation.

 We are in hurry because to relate is insecure and relationship is security. But what is the meaning of security alone which never makes you feel protected and loved. We become so afraid that we want to make it certain and predictable. 

Relation is just a noun and relating is verb. So, let’s reduce each noun to verb.